Posted by Dinah on January 5, 2011, at 9:51:08
In reply to Re: Why haven't you left this in babblemail? » jane d, posted by Maxime on January 5, 2011, at 6:49:55
> Because I think it is something that PB needs to know. If she has my files/information then she possibly has others. I know that at one point she had a lot of files on people. I didn't dig through the archives.
You responded to a post over three years old on not one, but two boards.
Your have now stated that your goal is not simply to ask that she get rid of any information she has about you, that you sent her freely, but to make everyone on Babble aware of your charges against her. To warn them. Is it possible that Phillipa sees herself as having equally benign motives for passing on information to others? Whatever your motives, your actions are that of someone spreading information, true or false, about another person.
You've made your point. Repeatedly.
Incidentally, if following site guidelines and avoiding blocks is important to you, a way to warn others without violating civility guidelines might be to say.
"I advise everyone to be very careful with information you don't wish to be public. Don't post it on board and don't send it to others. Emails are no more private than the board. Posters can and do pass on information in emails. If privacy is important to you, be careful what you post on board, send babblemails rather than emails, and don't send anything to another babbler that you wouldn't want known on board."
That is not only unexceptional, it's also completely true. I could endorse a statement like that. Depending on context, perhaps.
You say your pdoc is reading. Does he ever address your behavior? Or just the behavior of others. When I bring in posts, my therapist is always one to address my behavior before he addresses the behavior of others.
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