Posted by Fallen4MyT on January 21, 2007, at 19:23:37
In reply to Re: helping » ElaineM, posted by Deneb on January 21, 2007, at 16:41:46
You are entitled to your fee;ings and beliefs ...but what if that person doesn't HAVE any friends? Would not a professional be of more help? Or could said person help themself somehow
> > [However, if I'd "only" said that I was so sad, and never felt lonelier in my life, was afraid I was gonna get fired from my job, was having a fight with my significant other, couldn't stop crying my eyes out....etc..... then I'd expect my friend to listen with open ears, talk me through it, perhaps offer a bit of advice or anecdote, make plans to get together with me in person, try to make me laugh a little, whatnot. But that's not what we're talking about here.]
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> I think someone who was suicidal or someone who was thinking of hurting himself/herself would also benefit from being listened to, made to laugh, etc.
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> If everyone just tells the person to go to a professional and the professional doesn't know how to make the person feel better what then? There is no one else to turn to. I think friends can make a big difference, even more so than a T.
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> Deneb*
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