Posted by stargazer2 on December 22, 2013, at 15:55:46
In reply to Re: Nardil failure?/losing hope/Deerock others » stargazer2, posted by deerock on December 22, 2013, at 13:46:58
Thank you for responding. No I think my situation is as good as it is going to get. That is the conclusion I have come to. When I was married, my husband was a saint and didn't expect much from me so it was an easy way for me to exist and not have any expectations put on me. I don't think many people would be as passive as he was, we both were but at some point he obviously couldn't live with someone who was depressed and couldn't give him anything as much as he asked for things.
I'm not sure "what I have", I am clueless to understand what will help me and obviously every therapist I have had was also in the dark. They just took my money but didn't know what they were doing. I have no idea what is the right way to address whatever the hell I have, when the experts can't help, you really feel like there is no solution and this is where I'm at right now.
I'm supposed to have TMS in a few weeks, but it is only 3 or 4 treatments so God only know what that will do. Again, not knowing what is the right way to approach something that is so unclear, even experts really aren't, because depression and psychological conditions are so
uncertain, that the therapists have no idea how to approach each case. They don't even ask the right questions. I came up with the attachment disorder, not them. They think I should just go out and be social and my depression will go away...if it were this simple that would have been a slam dunk a few years ago I think.Star
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