Posted by Jazzed on June 1, 2005, at 12:34:19
In reply to Re: the way I see it, posted by MidnightBlue on May 28, 2005, at 20:27:59
> I have fought depression--serious depression--on and off for 30 years. In addition I am in almost constant physical pain from orthopedic problems. To choose to live isn't always an easy choice, but it is the RIGHT choice and the best choice.
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> Each of you have so much to give. This world would be a much sadder place without you.
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> MidnightBlue
I know you're really trying to help, and I'm sure your words are appreciated, BUT it also comes off as though you're discounting the way some people feel, which I'm sure was not your intention. These feelings can't be helped, they can't just be turned off, they are usually persistant. It's best to talk about it with people who are understanding and non-judgemental.When you say that "chosing to live is the best choice and the right choice", yes, I think we all rationally know that, but if that's the only opinion out there, then it forces the suicidal person underground, to deal with this by themselves, which is NOT helpful. The forums are to support one another no matter what the feelings are. Woolav needs to talk, to express herself, and to know she is among friends who can listen.
Again, I know you were only trying to help, but I strongly suggest that you look at the suicide prevention sites out there, so you can be more helpful next time.
Jazzed
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