Posted by harry b. on April 19, 2000, at 6:03:47
In reply to Am I gay?, posted by Andrew on April 17, 2000, at 3:25:59
Hello Andrew,
First, let me say that I am a gay man. I am 49yo, probably older than your parents :).
The experience you described does not, in itself, prove anything. Most young men find themselves questioning their sexuality, especially when they have been in close contact with a friend who is gay. When I was your age I was bewildered, did not know who or what I was. It was frightening. A few years later, by 16yo, I knew without a doubt what my orientation was. Those were still the 'dark ages' of sexuality and so I repressed my feelings. I did that for a long, long time.
I doubt that you are gay. If you should be, though, please get some counseling, learn to love yourself, and be able to live a productive life. Try not to fall into the trap of self denial, as I did, and do not turn to drugs or alcohol as a means of coping.
Best wishes
poster:harry b.
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