Posted by NikkiT on April 6, 2000, at 5:26:08
In reply to The husband thing again..., posted by NikkiT on April 5, 2000, at 11:58:43
Thanks.. it's nice to think I'm not just going mad... bad word actually!
Anyway, I do still love him, and at times (like that last thing at night when he hugs me) everything is fine.. It's simply the other 90% of the time I find so hard to cope with. basically, I think I married my father (if that amkes sense). I was incredibly close to my Dad, but he was an emotional bully, and I started dating my husband durung the last weeks of my Dads life (he was terminally ill with cancer). So many people mention how similar my Husband is to my dad, so I guess thats what I did.
I know he needs to "get educated", but I'm my wits end as to how to get him to understand, and maybe leaving him will be the only way to make it hit home.
In the short term, I am going away for the weekend with a very close girl friend, in the hope that a weekend, away form everything, in a hotel, might help me decide what to do.
Thanks for all the support... It really is wonderful to know theres people I can wibble at when I am at my wits end...
N xx
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