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Posted by happyflower on November 4, 2008, at 13:51:01
um,,,, so I waited and waited, I knew she was in the room with someone. They left and I could tell it wasn't a client, more business. She then asks if the owner came in (she heard me actually) and she walks past the waiting room to get the mail and didn't see me. So I go, Hey T, am I here at the wrong time? lol Well yup I was almost 4 hours too early, she apologized for having her candidate shirt on. I said well at least I know you are smart, lol. So I am getting ready to leave in a few. I wonder what she thinks now, lol. I can be such a dork sometimes. lol She seemed so embarrassed to see me, it was kinda cute.
Posted by stellabystarlight on November 4, 2008, at 16:27:28
In reply to Haha! I showed up at the wrong time! lol, posted by happyflower on November 4, 2008, at 13:51:01
Hi Happyflower,
I always wondered what would happen if I went to my appointment at the wrong time or on the wrong day! Your T handled it so well - it must have been nice to share an impromptu laugh together.
Just for the sake of digging deeper...you know the saying "there's no such thing as an accident" - Is there a chance that you might have subconsciously or unconsciously wanted to see her? I ask because I find myself wanting to see my T at times and fantasize about "accidentally" showing up at his office. And hear him say, "Oh, what a nice surprise! You want to come in for a visit, Stella, I just happen to be free for the next 2 hours?" LOL! Now, that would be heavenly...
I'm glad you're doing better and and your new T is working out, Happyflower.
Stellabystarlight
Posted by Dinah on November 4, 2008, at 16:31:35
In reply to Haha! I showed up at the wrong time! lol, posted by happyflower on November 4, 2008, at 13:51:01
I did that a couple of weeks ago. He'd asked me to come in in the afternoon instead of my regular time, and I came at the regular time anyway.
I was so embarassed when he came out to remind me, but then I thought "Hey wait! You're *here*! Was I bumped for someone else?"
:)
I'm glad it went smoothly.
Posted by happyflower on November 4, 2008, at 18:32:31
In reply to Haha! I showed up at the wrong time! lol, posted by happyflower on November 4, 2008, at 13:51:01
My session was so hard today. I talked about losing my friend to a drunk driver. It seems like I can't count on anyone, they either die, abuse me, or don't understand me so they reject me. :( Sometimes I wonder if I am a hopeless case. I am seeing way too many ways I am so f*ck*d up, it seems insurmountable to overcome. She knows I just want to hide from everyone. I don't like men looking at me, I say the opposite of what i really feel. I am not feeling very confident right now, sometimes I just want to shrink away from everything.
She said as I was leaving that we were going to work on some of my issues but I got the impression by the way she said it and her facial expressions, she thinks I have had so many bad things happen to me, that I need a lot of work.
Yeah.
Life sucks a lot for me, why do I keep holding on? I don't mean to sound sorry for myself, but I am so sad right now. I am not sure if I am ever going to heal the damage.
Posted by no_rose_garden on November 4, 2008, at 21:01:33
In reply to Re: Haha! I showed up at the wrong time! lol, posted by happyflower on November 4, 2008, at 18:32:31
I think i'm jealous of your new T. I hope she's super!
Posted by Phillipa on November 5, 2008, at 10:18:29
In reply to Re: Haha! I showed up at the wrong time! lol, posted by happyflower on November 4, 2008, at 18:32:31
When you start working and hear other stories I think it will help. Nursing did for me and acutely miss it. Love Phillipa
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