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Posted by happyflower on October 8, 2007, at 15:14:33
What the heck are happy tears? I was just telling him about the good stuff of this week, and I got all teary eyed and he thought something was wrong. I am like no, I am just happy. We both laughed.
I have done a lot of processing of old T and am in a much better place now with it, T said he was proud of me of all the work I did with processing all of this. I still will miss him, and that will just take time to get over, but I don't feel bad about what happened between us, I understand it, and I can accept it. T's are human after all, and I have learned a very good lesson about this. But next week it is back to the "top 10 sh*t list".
I am really freaking out because now the director of the jazz band just emailed me and he wants to do this feature solo this semester! So I have to pick up the music and go through it tonight before rehearsal. Now I have 2 solos, very scary indeed. Can you die from stage frieght? lol My director said being terrified is a good thing! yeah right! Lets see how terrified he will feel when I am up in front to the audience and croak! WOnder if he will feel scared. lol This guy is such a freak, but I like him. But I don't know how I will get throught this.
Posted by muffled on October 8, 2007, at 21:29:51
In reply to I cried happy tears in therapy today, posted by happyflower on October 8, 2007, at 15:14:33
Posted by happyflower on October 8, 2007, at 21:33:51
In reply to Good for you HF! You deserve it! (nm) » happyflower, posted by muffled on October 8, 2007, at 21:29:51
Posted by rskontos on October 8, 2007, at 22:39:34
In reply to I cried happy tears in therapy today, posted by happyflower on October 8, 2007, at 15:14:33
Happyflower, happy tears are wonderful. And to think you felt that way in therapy is a major step in my book. You will be great in your two solos and I wish I could be there. If not in body at least in spirit. No you can't die of stage fright. At least I have not ever see an episode on CSI or any other show and I think if it was remotely possible on of them would have done one on it by now.....LOLOL Just a liitle on the lite side. You will not croak, it just isn't allowed.
Glad you are working through the old T stuff too more progress. Sounds like a good day for you....rk
Posted by Wittgenstein on October 9, 2007, at 3:41:04
In reply to I cried happy tears in therapy today, posted by happyflower on October 8, 2007, at 15:14:33
What a lovely thing HF! Your post moved me :) :) - how nice to read about 'happy' tears for a change! And it says a lot about where you are in your T and how much better things are between you both. I admire the work you have done regarding your old T - this must take a lot of strength and courage.
Of course getting back to the really hard stuff won't be at all easy but it sounds like you are in as good a place as any to re-commence this work.
As for the performances - you can do it!! Having performed a lot of solos in the past, albeit some years ago (I play the harp) the nerves are important - they give you the drive to give a performance. You can't die of stage fright and just think of the super feel-good feeling once the solo is over and the audience begin to applaud - that will make it all worth it. Good luck!
Witti
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