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Posted by Iwillsurvive on March 26, 2007, at 13:39:53
mebbe she having lotsa fun though.
That would be a good thing.
But I getting all mixed up.
Posted by Iwillsurvive on March 26, 2007, at 14:15:09
In reply to I want my T back :-(, posted by Iwillsurvive on March 26, 2007, at 13:39:53
I did dishes.
I doing laundry whites WITH bleach(don't do that much, hard on septic system), so they will come out gloriously white and crisp.
Then I tumble them w/fabric softener sheet and they will come from the dryer BEAUTIFUL, and it will be a satisfying sensory experience.
I gonna take dogs to beach. They be SO happy, so me too.
I do library. Get books to distract. Simple books.
I will FORCE myself to be around people.
I do good things.
I will smile kind, from my soul smiles to others, even if I don't feel like it, but I give it as a gift to others who struggle too, and I also benefit.
I will try to find nice things to say to others.
I will have bath tonite.
I will be thankful for the TONS of good that is in my life.
I will have a talk time for my 'people' tonite, in my journal, so they can feel heard.
These are coping things.
See me cope.
Posted by sunnydays on March 26, 2007, at 14:21:39
In reply to I make T proud, I COPE » Iwillsurvive, posted by Iwillsurvive on March 26, 2007, at 14:15:09
((((((((iwillsurvive))))))))))))
You will survive and I will survive. It sounds like you are doing all the right things. I'm trying to as well (you may know my T has been gone for three weeks now, so I'm in a similar position as you). Hang in there. If we both keep doing the right things, we'll get through this together. But it's ok to just lay down on the bed and take a nap or cry or scream and yell to release some of the emotion once in a while. You don't have to keep it ALL bottled up until she gets back. But I definitely understand feeling like you want to. I do too.
You're a sweet, kind person. Keep doing the right things with me.
sunnydays
Posted by Iwillsurvive on March 26, 2007, at 14:33:20
In reply to Re: I make T proud, I COPE » Iwillsurvive, posted by sunnydays on March 26, 2007, at 14:21:39
Yup SD we do right things.
Sorry for you and your T :(
Mebbe he will feel better soon.
Hope so. Guess he pretty hurt :(
Thanks to you.
(((((SD)))))
Mebbe you can say good things you do too?
Mebbe I get some good ideas.
Thanks
I sends good wishes to your T too.
{{{{healing wishes to SD T}}}}}}
Posted by sunnydays on March 26, 2007, at 15:28:02
In reply to Re: I make T proud, I COPE » sunnydays, posted by Iwillsurvive on March 26, 2007, at 14:33:20
Awww, thanks iwillsurvive. Let's see, good things I've done:
I went to Target with a friend even though I wanted to stay in my room - and I ended up having fun.
I've been keeping up with my homework (at least, as much as I normally do).
I've been reaching out to other Ts and professionals that can help me while my T is gone (I see my T through the university, so lots of people there to help).
I've been giving myself breaks and trying not to be too hard on myself.
I've been working on my job application.
I changed the sheets on my bed.
That's all I can think of for now.
sunnydays
Posted by Poet on March 26, 2007, at 17:18:49
In reply to I make T proud, I COPE » Iwillsurvive, posted by Iwillsurvive on March 26, 2007, at 14:15:09
Hi IWS,
I think you should be proud of yourself, definitely your will be in how you're managing to cope while she's gone.
I did laundry, today, too. It's unseasonably warm: upper 70s, and I hung in it on the line to dry.
Have fun with the dogs at the beach, and congratulate yourself for coping. You are doing it and seem to be doing it well.
Poet
Posted by Happyflower on March 26, 2007, at 20:26:15
In reply to Re: I make T proud, I COPE » Iwillsurvive, posted by Poet on March 26, 2007, at 17:18:49
WOW! I am so proud of you too! This has to be the happiest post I have ever read from you. You go girl! ;-) I love to see you grow! :-)
Posted by Iwillsurvive on March 26, 2007, at 23:19:54
In reply to Re: I make T proud, I COPE » Iwillsurvive, posted by sunnydays on March 26, 2007, at 15:28:02
Posted by Iwillsurvive on March 26, 2007, at 23:22:25
In reply to Re: I make T proud, I COPE » Iwillsurvive, posted by Poet on March 26, 2007, at 17:18:49
I am in one piece, but still mixed up some.
Nice that people care.
Weird but nice.
I will do OK.
Just goto tend to business.
You take care Poet, you struggle so hard too.
I think Poet is OK. You tell her that.
Yup.
Posted by Iwillsurvive on March 26, 2007, at 23:23:20
In reply to Re: I make T proud, I COPE, posted by Happyflower on March 26, 2007, at 20:26:15
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