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Posted by BeARdEdLaDY on May 23, 2002, at 11:33:57
In reply to Thank you , Beardedlady » BeARdEdLaDY, posted by Lou Pilder on May 23, 2002, at 9:30:57
Please get through this; there's a message for just about everyone.
I don't support Lou's posts; I support his right to post them. I don't like them because I don't like being spoon fed religion. But I'm not being force fed. It's my choice not to read it. And that's the choice I made.
I support US--our right to laugh when we want to laugh, to tell someone off when we want to, to tell others what worked for us. If someone wants to listen, great. If not, we would hope that the person gets the message.
KK, although you did give an example of a dangerous result, I'm not sure it's a result that's going to come from Lou's posts! It's a slippery slope that one would lead to the other.
Don't we have some important things to do? Like some Thai food to eat or some babies to take care of, some sun to sit in?
Because truth be told, I think you all are terrific. I like something about everyone on the board, whether I agree with him or not. (Lou has said some astonishingly clever things as of late; and KidA's poetry sings to me; and Alii, angry as she is, is quite righteous; and KK has that great energy and conviction and sense of humor; and IsoM knows just about all there is to know about everything, but isn't a know-it-all; and Zo has become my dear, dear friend, which is something I promised myself would not happen.)
And I could go on to say great things about Wendy, the smarty pants; and Sid and Kiddo, but do you get my drift?
Hokey as it is, I am, through and through, a Libra, maker of peace, restorer or justice (maker of peas, restorer of jesters).
C'mon, y'all? Ain't we got fun?
beardy : )>
P.S. Oh My God--PHIL! And SHAR! And--oh, this is like Romper Room.
Posted by BeARdEdLaDY on May 23, 2002, at 11:35:05
In reply to Support for opinions, etc., posted by BeARdEdLaDY on May 23, 2002, at 11:33:57
Posted by krazy kat on May 23, 2002, at 11:56:59
In reply to Support for opinions, etc., posted by BeARdEdLaDY on May 23, 2002, at 11:33:57
I'm an Aquarius. We should all post our signs sometime and see how they fit. :)
Well, I stand by concern re: Lou's posts - it's one of the few areas I have extensive experience in.
But I greatly appreciate your kind and observational words.
- kk
Posted by Lou Pilder on May 23, 2002, at 12:10:56
In reply to Support for opinions, etc., posted by BeARdEdLaDY on May 23, 2002, at 11:33:57
Beardedlady,
Thank yu for your post. When I was in the City of Pace, I asked what I could do to recieve a blessing from God. I was told, "Blessed are the peacemakers, for thy shall be called the sons of God.
Lou
Posted by Ron Hill on May 23, 2002, at 12:16:19
In reply to Re: right to laugh, etc., posted by Dr. Bob on May 23, 2002, at 2:03:30
> > Why not ask Dr. Bob to create a religious/theology site
> >
> > Kiddo
> Hmm, it sounds like a can of worms, but OTOH...
>
> Bob
----------------This proposed solution sounds similar to relegating African Americans to the rear of the bus. They can ride, but not with the white folks. Just my opinion.
-- Ron
Posted by Lou Pilder on May 23, 2002, at 12:20:03
In reply to Re: Step to the Rear of the Bus » Dr. Bob, posted by Ron Hill on May 23, 2002, at 12:16:19
Ron Hill,
I wholheartedly agree with your assesment to "separate but equal"
Lou
Posted by kid_A on May 23, 2002, at 12:58:13
In reply to Separate but equal? » Ron Hill, posted by Lou Pilder on May 23, 2002, at 12:20:03
There is a MED board to discuss medication, this usually consists of "what is med X like", or "should I try med X or med Y", or "does anyone feel like this when they take med X"... sometimes you get scare posts where people who've had a bad experience on a med try to warn others to stay away from it at all costs, but such is life...There is a social board whose concepts are loose, but at the same time involve mutual support for people who are feeling depressed and may seek input from others to help them get through their problems... In the majority of cases I dont think telling people that "God" is the answer is helpfull to their situation, as we all have different opinions on what "God" is, etc etc... It's not unlike telling people that they probably wouldn't be so depressed had they voted Republican...
Now, we also have the book club board, where people can discuss particular books that they are reading. I am supossing that this board was set up seperately so that the Social board did not become clogged up with these book posts...
And then of course there are all the other boards...
Religion is a very special and personal subject whose idealogy might not appeal to everyone, and who's presence may not make everyone feel comfortable...
I don't think that setting up a board to discuss religion is a bad idea, nor do I think that it is comes equivical to something like racial segregation.
Posted by kiddo on May 23, 2002, at 13:48:24
In reply to Support for opinions, etc., posted by BeARdEdLaDY on May 23, 2002, at 11:33:57
Posted by kiddo on May 23, 2002, at 14:59:57
In reply to Re: Step to the Rear of the Bus » Dr. Bob, posted by Ron Hill on May 23, 2002, at 12:16:19
Ron-
http://dr-bob.org/babble/faq.html#civil
1. Please respect the views of others, even if you think their wrong.
I don’t discriminate regardless of race, age, gender, sexual orientation, beliefs, social status, or in any other way.
2. Please be sensitive to their feelings even if they hurt yours.Comparing my suggestion to what happened to African-Americans really bothers me and hurts to think someone could even think I’d be so cruel. I’m part Cherokee, so I hope you understand what I mean.
3. Please don’t jump to conclusions about others or their experiences.In my opinion, you were jumping to conclusions for the fact you didn’t bother to even ask what I meant, or even phrase it as a question, you just came to the conclusion I was trying to ‘get rid’ of Lou, when in fact that isn’t the case at all.
Why not have a religious/spiritual board? There is more than one person on this site who refers to their faith regardless of being public or private about their faith. Why not add a place for those people to get together and have that ability while allowing those who don't want to participate the option of not utilizing it?
I'm offended that you make a racial discrimination/segregation reference to something that I authored for the fact you have no idea what race, religion, age and perhaps gender that I am-so please don't assume things about me that you don’t know.
4. Please don’t post anything that others could take accusatory.This comment felt accusing to me and I’d appreciate it if in the future you wouldn’t make these kinds of statements. I’m not discriminatory towards anyone. If you’d like to know something about me, please ask.
5. Please don’t exaggerate or over-generalize.I feel as if this is an over-generalization in the largest sense of the word. It’s like you have lumped me in with the KKK or whomever to make a point from a statement that wasn’t even there in the first place.
There are several boards on this website, categorized for CONTENT, not trying to shove them out the door. I thought it would be rather nice to have one like this. Other people have made references to reading their Bible and helped them through depression and were given the 3rd degree for it. Why not have a place where they may speak of it freely without repercussion?
6. It’s fine to give others feedback as long as it’s constructive.Please let me know if I've taken this statement wrong and there is something constructive that I have missed.
Posted by mair on May 23, 2002, at 15:12:30
In reply to Please Be Civil » Ron Hill, posted by kiddo on May 23, 2002, at 14:59:57
You can all talk until you're blue in the face about whether Lou's posts are dangerous to newcomers, but the people engaged in this dabate are all seasoned posters. Check out PSB and see how long Lou's threads go on. I know it's hard to ignore his posts, but really, if no one responded to them, I think they'd become very short threads very quickly. Think of the perspective of someone who comes to the Board for the first time. The fury with which we all try to counter Lou IMO elevates him and his message, and I think it would be totally impossible for a newcomer not to check out these threads. This may or may not be a free speech issue - but how it affects us is something we can control. It's pretty clear that Lou loves a debate and he loves the attention, and the furor over his rights does nothing to quiet him and everything to encourage him.
Mair
Posted by Lou Pilder on May 23, 2002, at 15:39:06
In reply to Here's What I Don't Understand, posted by mair on May 23, 2002, at 15:12:30
Mair,
Thank you for joining this discussion. You have a good insight to the issues at hand. In a sense, you have uncovered an issue that could result in a great awakining on this board. Pleses continue with yur contributions as you percieve them.
Thanks,
Lou
Posted by NikkiT2 on May 23, 2002, at 16:01:34
In reply to I'm losing my mind..., posted by krazy kat on May 23, 2002, at 10:16:29
You're not losing your mind... i support you, but have found it hard to build a post that won't get me a pbc!!
nikki
Posted by krazy kat on May 23, 2002, at 16:11:04
In reply to Re: I'm losing my mind... » krazy kat, posted by NikkiT2 on May 23, 2002, at 16:01:34
though, Kiddo's use of the civil rules helped me think it out better. I hope to make one more lucid (?) post about it, also addressing why I haven't ignored his threads, because I agree that's the best thing to do.
Then I think I'll go to the 2001 board and Babble only for awhile. I don't think he can post there.
So all my ranting and raving about how the old timers boards were exclusive and bad, has come back to bite me on the butt. Now I need them for a safe haven. :)
Thanks, Nikki. Are you 2000 or 2001?
- kk
Posted by Lou Pilder on May 23, 2002, at 16:18:47
In reply to Please Be Civil » Ron Hill, posted by kiddo on May 23, 2002, at 14:59:57
Kiddo,
The allegations that yo have made against Ron Hill are ,to me, outrageous IMHO. If your allegations are held to be against the rules of this board, then no poster could disagree with anyone or they could be repremanded IMHO. Now John has evry right to see, in his experiances in his life, that segregation is, indeed segregation by any mode or means IMHO. Whenever you separate peoples, by any criteria, you end up with the possibility of demaening one or both of the groups IMHO. For you must examine the purpose that the segregation is being advocated IMHO. If it is to separate people on the basis that they have a religious beliefe in God, then, IMHO, it is abhorrant to all. The separation of race, religion, gender, handicap, ethnicicity, intellegance, height, weight, hair type, and 1000 other distinctions, all are in the same Kingdom IMHO. The genus/spieceis may be different, but segregation is segregation no matter what is the charactoristic to be srgreagated IMHO. That is why I tried to not be relegated to another board. I wanted us all to be one people. I would want the book club on the one board also. John's perception of the back of the bus is a valid assesment by him as he sees it IMHO and he and others here have diverse opinions and they should all be welcome,IMHO.
Lou
Posted by kid_A on May 23, 2002, at 16:26:26
In reply to I imagine I'll be blocked soon... » NikkiT2, posted by krazy kat on May 23, 2002, at 16:11:04
A. Respond to every post that even remotely defends your position with praises and back patting.B. Either ignore entirely any Civil post which questions your position, or answer said post with the same type of content that is being questioned.
...why?
Posted by Ron Hill on May 23, 2002, at 16:47:54
In reply to Please Be Civil » Ron Hill, posted by kiddo on May 23, 2002, at 14:59:57
Kiddo,
My comment was directed to Dr. Bob. The idea of relegating constituently guaranteed speech to an isolated corner of the web site is almost certainly illegal. In this regard, it would be similar to some of the events associated with the civil rights movement (e.g. separate but equal). I was merely drawing an analogy.
I meant absolutely no insult to you in any way.
> I don’t discriminate regardless of race, age, gender, sexual orientation, beliefs, social status, or in any other way.
Kiddo, where did I say that you do?
> Comparing my suggestion to what happened to African-Americans really bothers me and hurts to think someone could even think I’d be so cruel. I’m part Cherokee, so I hope you understand what I mean.
I don't think you are cruel, Kiddo. Heck, I don't even know you! From your posts that I've read on the various boards, you seem like a nice person. My comments were directed to Dr. Bob. I did so because he seemed to leave the door open to the idea of restricting speech at the conclusion of his brief reply: "Hmm, it sounds like a can of worms, but OTOH..."
I was merely conveying my opinion to Dr. Bob that "separate but equal" is probably not a good idea. IMHO, discrimination is a bad thing in any of its various faces, including discrimination against people of faith.
> In my opinion, you were jumping to conclusions for the fact you didn’t bother to even ask what I meant, or even phrase it as a question, you just came to the conclusion I was trying to ‘get rid’ of Lou, when in fact that isn’t the case at all.
>
> Why not have a religious/spiritual board? There is more than one person on this site who refers to their faith regardless of being public or private about their faith. Why not add a place for those people to get together and have that ability while allowing those who don't want to participate the option of not utilizing it?As I've stated above, to restrict religious speech in the manner suggested is likely illegal. The legal term for such activity is "viewpoint discrimination".
> I'm offended that you make a racial discrimination/segregation reference to something that I authored for the fact you have no idea what race, religion, age and perhaps gender that I am-so please don't assume things about me that you don’t know.
I made NO assumptions about you. I didn't even think of you while I was writing the post. My post was directed to Dr. Bob.
> This comment felt accusing to me and I’d appreciate it if in the future you wouldn’t make these kinds of statements. I’m not discriminatory towards anyone. If you’d like to know something about me, please ask.
I made NO assumptions about you. I didn't even think of you while I was writing the post. My post was directed to Dr. Bob.
> I feel as if this is an over-generalization in the largest sense of the word. It’s like you have lumped me in with the KKK or whomever to make a point from a statement that wasn’t even there in the first place.I made NO assumptions about you. I didn't even think of you while I was writing the post. My post was directed to Dr. Bob.
> There are several boards on this website, categorized for CONTENT, not trying to shove them out the door. I thought it would be rather nice to have one like this. Other people have made references to reading their Bible and helped them through depression and were given the 3rd degree for it. Why not have a place where they may speak of it freely without repercussion?
Yes, I hear ya Kiddo. That's all fine well and good so long as religious speech is not restricted to only that particular web page on this site. Such restriction is viewpoint discrimination. The law requires that religious speech be given equal status as other forms of speech in the market place of ideas. As an aside, it would seem to me that giving someone the 3rd degree is uncivil, and that it should be dealt with as such.
> Please let me know if I've taken this statement wrong and there is something constructive that I have missed.
Kiddo, I’m sorry for your hurt feelings. That was certainly NOT my intent.
-- Ron
Posted by kid_A on May 23, 2002, at 17:24:16
In reply to Re: Clarification » kiddo, posted by Ron Hill on May 23, 2002, at 16:47:54
Okay, I'll try to put this in the most civil terms I can. First any inclination that any of the aforementioned events, conversations, posts, whathaveyou have anything in the slightest bit in common with the racism/discrimination/segregation which occured during the civil rights movement is not only an irresponsible poorly thought out analogy, it also attempts to derive some type of sympathy by direct association with said events of the past. I dont think -anyone- is buying this logic.Second, to claim that all forms of segregation are the same is like trying to argue for coed bathrooms at a college campus. The argument makes absolutely no sense whatsoever, in my opinion, humble or not. Equating segregation of the boards with some form of human rights violation is not going very far to proving that much logic is being considered in the endevor to foster an environment where -everyone- is happy.
Why not just walk into the bookstore and ask them why in the world all the books aren't just in some great pile in the middle of the store for all to rummage through until they find what they want. Oh but books aren't people you say, but just like the words in the books the words that people post about in their messages are like books, and as such they do deserve some categorisation so that people looking for information can find it easily. Get the bookstore analogy, I surely hope so...
I'm going to go listen to The Cure's first album really really loud right now and try to figure out where this whole thing went pear shaped, and all logic flew out the window...
Posted by Ron Hill on May 23, 2002, at 17:55:13
In reply to Attn Passengers: We have landed on the planet Zoot, posted by kid_A on May 23, 2002, at 17:24:16
Posted by kid_A on May 23, 2002, at 18:19:28
In reply to Re: Why the derogatory tone of voice? (nm) » kid_A, posted by Ron Hill on May 23, 2002, at 17:55:13
I do not think that my text is in any way derogatory, the 1% of my word choice that may be deemed derogatory by someone who doesn't at all agree with my opinion is merely in reference to the fact that I am completely frustrated with a situation that seems to have no logical retort from the oposition whatsoever...Nobody has bothered to make any lucid statements as to why religious text should not be given their own forum, nor have they ever adressed a good portion of any texts that favour said action or are in any way in opposition to that particular person's post...
Nobody seems to be discussing anything, just reiterating their opinions in the hopes that eventually those in opposition will just shut up and go away...
Lets remember here folks, THIS IS NOT A DEMOCRACY, this is Dr Bob's site, and what he says goes, and I hope for the love of Jesus, Allah and Buddha that some sensible solution can come of all of this...
Posted by BeARdEdLaDY on May 23, 2002, at 18:39:36
In reply to Re: Why the derogatory tone of voice? » Ron Hill, posted by kid_A on May 23, 2002, at 18:19:28
>...and I hope for the love of Jesus, Allah and Buddha that some sensible solution can come of all of this...
Basha's the god of the Church of What's Happening Now.
beardy : )>
Posted by kid_A on May 23, 2002, at 19:07:29
In reply to Uh, you forgot Basha. » kid_A, posted by BeARdEdLaDY on May 23, 2002, at 18:39:36
that show where Rerun got busted for bootlegging Doobie Brothers Tapes!?I'm konfused....!
Posted by Lou Pilder on May 23, 2002, at 19:17:15
In reply to Re: Why the derogatory tone of voice? » Ron Hill, posted by kid_A on May 23, 2002, at 18:19:28
Friends,
When I was a teacher, the school had a 1000 reasons to descriminate against the children .(1000 is used as a figure of speech to mean a large number). They took a girl with a deformed leg and segregated her and made her eat in the library instead of with the others in the caft. I fought to have her be allowed to eat with her friends. I won that one. They also segregated the students by what they called "ability". I fought for 24 years to win that one. They also put the handicapped students in a segregated wing. I fought that one and won that one too. They segregated the girls from boys in Phys. Ed. Someone else won that one. Theses were some of the examples of "De Jure" segregation. There are many examples of what is called ,"De Facto" segregation which are too numerous to list here. But my overiding point is that all of the segregation caused a very unhealthy environment for if you segregate, you arrouse a spector of wonder as to whether one group is better than the other group. I have seen the tragedy of all kinds of segregation in schools. I do not have to tell you about my experiance with segregation outside of the schools.
Today, segregation is a thing of the past. I believe that we should be the exempler and not try to resurrect segregation on this board in regards to religious thought or content. We should be the light to others.
Sincerely,
Lou
Posted by krazy kat on May 23, 2002, at 19:34:27
In reply to Attn Passengers: We have landed on the planet Zoot, posted by kid_A on May 23, 2002, at 17:24:16
"I'm going to go listen to The Cure's first album really really loud right now and try to figure out where this whole thing went pear shaped, and all logic flew out the window..."
Ah, we come from similar shells...
Posted by krazy kat on May 23, 2002, at 19:38:17
In reply to Uh, you forgot Basha. » kid_A, posted by BeARdEdLaDY on May 23, 2002, at 18:39:36
Is there a "Basha"? I, very seriously, love any and all info on religious/spiritual concepts, so if so, share my Bearded friend.
I loved "What's Happening". But, more so, The Jeffersons and, well, I'll admit it - big fan of I Love Lucy. Really.
Posted by lou pilder on May 23, 2002, at 20:10:33
In reply to Re: Why the derogatory tone of voice? » Ron Hill, posted by kid_A on May 23, 2002, at 18:19:28
Friends,
Kid-A hopes that there is a sensible solution to this. the following is my attempt to resolve the controversy.
First, I propose that there should be no blocking, for I believe that the punishment does not fit the crime. Instead, rule breakers be assessed $0.25 (american, I do not know the British or Canadian equivalence)when a rule is broken. No payment is due untill $2.00 is reached. Then payment must be made in order to be reinstated. I do not know what the money could be used for, but we could find one.
Second, posters should be limited to 10 posts a day without accumulating. (use it or loose it)
Third, posts that are deemed defamatory , such as name calling, will cause the poster to loose 5 of their days allotment.
Fourth, posters that make a post that is inspiering will recieve 5 extra posts per day for 3 consecutive days.
Other good and just rules that you can suggest.
Lou
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