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Posted by Mrs. C on May 28, 2004, at 23:07:54
In reply to RE::: hey yo yo squad, posted by trucker on May 28, 2004, at 22:54:32
Trucker, I guess I made you feel the same way I felt when I read Lynne's message. Sorry. I guess I just learned something tonight. Be happy with what I've got! I am blessed! Thanks for giving me a different perspective. Mrs. C
Posted by bride2be on May 28, 2004, at 23:50:29
In reply to RE::: hey yo yo squad, posted by Mrs. C on May 28, 2004, at 23:07:54
i am so proud of your weight loss! you go girl. 2 thumbs up
Posted by bride2be on May 28, 2004, at 23:51:25
In reply to RE::: hey yo yo squad--trucker, posted by bride2be on May 28, 2004, at 23:50:29
i hope you guys have a wonderful weekend. i am moving out of my apartment, but i will try to catch up. love yall
Posted by bride2be on May 28, 2004, at 23:53:04
In reply to RE::: to all my girls, posted by bride2be on May 28, 2004, at 23:51:25
is your wedding this weekend or next? i cant seem to remember. i wish you 2 the best of luck. i want to hear all about it since mine is july 10th. i am so ready...espcially for aruba! hot sun here i come! i started tanning last week so i dont look like casper! heeeeeee
Posted by bride2be on May 28, 2004, at 23:53:57
In reply to RE::: here comes to brideanakin, posted by bride2be on May 28, 2004, at 23:53:04
i hope you and your new grandson are doing ok. how is the lex treating you. have you increases yet. i miss chatting with you!
Posted by bride2be on May 28, 2004, at 23:55:18
In reply to RE::: hey mystic, posted by bride2be on May 28, 2004, at 23:53:57
how is the sweetest lady in the world doing? were you having problems with the lex recently. i tried to skim through the posts. i hope are doing as good as you make all of the yo yo's feel
Posted by bride2be on May 28, 2004, at 23:56:08
In reply to RE::: hey mrs C, posted by bride2be on May 28, 2004, at 23:55:18
are you doing good? what hvae you been us to? let me know. i hope you have a wonderful weekend
Posted by bride2be on May 28, 2004, at 23:57:21
In reply to RE::: hey jlynne, posted by bride2be on May 28, 2004, at 23:56:08
i have not seen you on aol lately. i have not been able to get online latly. the hotel is really busy b/c the race is in charlotte now. i hope you are doing great. write me so i know your ok.
Posted by bride2be on May 28, 2004, at 23:58:00
In reply to RE::: hey em, posted by bride2be on May 28, 2004, at 23:57:21
Posted by Anakin on May 29, 2004, at 11:18:18
In reply to RE::: here comes to brideanakin, posted by bride2be on May 28, 2004, at 23:53:04
It is in two weeks, june 12th, i am so excited...good luck to you too!!! I am stressing a little with some last mintue stuff, but it will be aight!
Posted by Simus on May 29, 2004, at 17:00:37
In reply to RE::: here comes to brideanakin, posted by Anakin on May 29, 2004, at 11:18:18
How many more school days???
Posted by mystic on May 29, 2004, at 17:43:47
In reply to RE::: here comes to brideanakin » Anakin, posted by Simus on May 29, 2004, at 17:00:37
Hey everyone...I'm still hanging in there...Cant wait until I can say this week has been great or this month has been great...But not there yet hopefully soon...Did go to arobics this morning and spent time with my daughter and my little grandson ryan and that certainly makes for a great day!!!!...Hey we have brides brides brides...now I think one is next weekend Bridetobe..and the next is 2 weeks from today anakin how exciting...You guys must be sooo busy..and hopefully you are all feeling great..good ...terrific this should be one of the most special days in your lives and will say lots of prayers that it will be...Please keep us posted...Hey simus how are you today..Finally sunshine I love it..Well I'm off take care everyone...Mystic
Posted by Magdalena on May 29, 2004, at 20:07:19
In reply to Redirected Lexaproers, posted by jlynne on March 13, 2004, at 1:31:16
Posted by mystic on May 29, 2004, at 20:53:52
In reply to thank you Mrs C (warm hug) (nm), posted by Magdalena on May 29, 2004, at 20:07:19
Hey everyone what is going on..now we dont leave posts anymore we just leave one line subject messages..what the heck is up with that...totally 100% unexceptable...now come on we can do better than that...we are getting lazy here and that is not good...!!!!...Mystic
Posted by Simus on May 29, 2004, at 21:48:58
In reply to RE::: Hey everyone, posted by mystic on May 29, 2004, at 17:43:47
Mystic,
Are you up to singing a duet with me at our brides' weddings???
Posted by Mrs. C on May 29, 2004, at 22:12:29
In reply to RE::: hey yo yo squad--trucker, posted by bride2be on May 28, 2004, at 23:50:29
Thanks for your encouragement! I need all the help I can get! Mrs. C
Posted by Mrs. C on May 29, 2004, at 22:16:30
In reply to RE::: hey mrs C, posted by bride2be on May 28, 2004, at 23:55:18
No, you are the sweetest! I am feeling really good since increasing to 20. I have had some ups and downs lately but have come through them pretty well. Lex hasn't stopped the worrying but has helped me to get over things quicker. YEAH!! Thanks for checking on me. You sound wonderful. Just in time for the happiest day of your life!! More details please!! Mrs. C
Posted by Mrs. C on May 29, 2004, at 22:18:10
In reply to RE::: here comes to brideanakin, posted by Anakin on May 29, 2004, at 11:18:18
You're doing great sweetie and we will be here for you anytime. Mrs C.
Posted by Magdalena on May 29, 2004, at 23:09:50
In reply to Redirected Lexaproers, posted by jlynne on March 13, 2004, at 1:31:16
i did it, i bailed on our plans tomorrow to go to the racetrack..my boyfriend is upset with me now, but how can i explain what i am feeling..i just feel like i want to be alone, yet at the same time i dont...i just feel really sad, like this happiness i recently found is being threatend my my illness..i just want to be normal, i want to be happy, but i keep letting people down and in turn i let myself down. i just feel like curling up with my pillow and crying for a week straight. since i bailed maybe i will start my increase tomorrow. i am such a letdown, :(
"one day i am going to grow wings, a chemical reaction, hysterical and useless.."Madgalea
Posted by Magdalena on May 29, 2004, at 23:18:10
In reply to :(, posted by Magdalena on May 29, 2004, at 23:09:50
geeze i cant even spell my name right..
Posted by Simus on May 29, 2004, at 23:31:30
In reply to :(, posted by Magdalena on May 29, 2004, at 23:09:50
> i did it, i bailed on our plans tomorrow to go to the racetrack...my boyfriend is upset with me now,
Sweetie, just concentrate on getting better, and you will have a lifetime to make up for it.
> but how can i explain what i am feeling..i just feel like i want to be alone, yet at the same time i dont...
You can't explain it to someone who hasn't experienced it.
> i just feel really sad, like this happiness i recently found is being threatend my my illness..i just want to be normal, i want to be happy, but i keep letting people down and in turn i let myself down. i just feel like curling up with my pillow and crying for a week straight.
This is what life looks like through the eyes of depression. It WILL go away, and life WILL be good again!
> since i bailed maybe i will start my increase tomorrow.
It may help, but give it some time to take effect.
> i am such a letdown,
No you aren't. You aren't well. And when the depression lifts, so will the negative self-talk. So try not to dwell on it now. Be kind to yourself through the recovery process, and don't expect too much of yourself just yet.
God bless.
Posted by mystic on May 30, 2004, at 10:11:03
In reply to :(, posted by Magdalena on May 29, 2004, at 23:09:50
Now Mag you are fine...I hope that you did the increase today that would give you an extra head start...You did not bail you realized that it was more than you could handle right now and you took care of yourself...!!!!...It will be fine if he loves you he will eventually understand it is very hard for them to figure all this out..My husband knows what I go through but still can be frustrated with me because of it and it is usually because he feels useless to help me and he just doesnt understand..Mag that is what we are here for we are here to understand and to get you through the hard times and to rejoice with you in the good times!!!!...and from what everyone tells me that will happen..I have recently increased and couldnt have done it without people like simus who is always there to help and to explain things to us all she is an angel..and Mrs C I remember her from the very beginning and she has never let me down not once...So take comfort in that...There is always lexy she is not on as much but she is very helpful and everyone else that comes and goes...Mag please give yourself a break about this one thing and enjoy the rest of the weekend it will be ok...breathe and try to relax..You did the right thing...I dont think that many of us couldve gone through that situation feeling the way that we do and I know I have a hard time with that many people when I'm feeling good...I luvya Mag and I'm here for you..I will check in through out the day and see how you are...did you take the increase??...Take care Mystic
Posted by Magdalena on May 30, 2004, at 10:47:11
In reply to RE::: Mag, posted by mystic on May 30, 2004, at 10:11:03
hey mystic, thank you i'm glad at least you guys can understand, this morning was brutal my bf sent me a messege and it made me really sad, this is what it said. "Im tired of this im going to stop making plans with you cause all you do is let me down. I try so hard to go out and have some fun but its like you dont want that. Its been 10 months almost ive been trying to get you to go to the movies with me and its like u dont want to. I feel like i should stop trying." this made me really really sad...the truth is i havent told him about my anxiety all he knows is that i have depression but i dont know how to explain this anxiety to him, i hate it, i dont want him to think less of me...i wish i could do all these 'normal' things that other couples do, like the movies! i wish i could sit through one and not even think about it, its true i always make excuses why i dont want to go cause what am i supposed to say "umm i dont want to go cause i will start to feel unconfortable and freak out because of reasons i dont know, ps. your girlfriend is insane. "
i know im being hard on myself i just dont want my bf to think i dont want to do these things with him...i feel like i am ruining the only thing in my life right now that is making me soo happy.
Mystic thank you for your kind words, and yes Mrs C is wonderful too...im glad i have you guys to remind me that i am not alone.
love Mags
Posted by Magdalena on May 30, 2004, at 10:54:13
In reply to Re: :( » Magdalena, posted by Simus on May 29, 2004, at 23:31:30
Simus, i hope you are right, when this depression does lift i hope this will all seem a distant past..im not ususally so negative i just feel things that are important to me are being threatned and its making me feel really sad and hopeless...you are right i should be better to myself and not feel defeated when things like this happen, if my bf doesnt understand then there isnt too much i can do about it.. i just don't want him to think i dont like doing things with him, i bet its a blow to his ego... the truth is and im sure you all understand is that i want to do these things, as im sure you guys do too, and maybe you guys are already at that point where you can be yourselfs again...i cant wait for when its my turn:)
i will concentrate on becoming better and i know doing things i a uncomforatble with is part of the healing process, what he doenst know is i have done things like this all the time but he doenst know...its my fault cause i havnt told him..
sigh
anyway
thanks for the words im greatful i have all of you to talk to, :)Mags
Posted by mystic on May 30, 2004, at 13:01:24
In reply to RE::: Mag » mystic, posted by Magdalena on May 30, 2004, at 10:47:11
Well mag that wasnt a very nice e-mail but you know the reason you got it..You have got to trust him and try to explain the way that you feel..Explain to him the feelings that you have when you go to the movies..explain to him that you have to have a way out if needed and most of the time if you know that you are with a safe person that you are fine..I know with my husband he knows how I feel and he is understanding and knows if I have to leave we have to go right then no questions asked and even though right now we dont do alot of things I have to get myself straightened out but when I can do things I know he is there...Not that there are plenty of times still that he doesnt understand and it is hard for him it is hard for anyone that doesnt totally understand the extent of it...They love us and want us to be ok..
I wish oh how I wish for all of us that this will go away someday and I do know from experience with the paxil that it does help you just have to get to the right dosage and you are on way too low right now...did you start your increase today??...and you know that I'm right there with you on that track also increasing takes me forever and I'm struggling myself after 2 weeks on the increase but hopefully i can realize that now I'm 2 weeks into it and that i wasnt feeling good at all before..!!!...so I might still be feeling that same way or maybe a little better...
Mag maybe print some stuff off the computer and give it to him to read whatever you can find to make him understand a little better and then just sit down with him calmly and try to let him know everything that you are feeling...I cant harm right now things seem a little strained anyway my friend so please be honest with him and see where it goes..You may deal with this at some level your whole life and will need someone to be in your corner...
Let me know how the rest of your day goes and keep in touch I will be checking in...Your are loved and you will be ok I promise we all will..Take care and try to just relax and not beat yourself up about all of this...You did make the right decision for yourself for today maybe not for always but for today you did..!!!>.your friend Mystic
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