Posted by alexandra_k on February 16, 2005, at 4:22:46
In reply to Re: Was it Freud? » alexandra_k, posted by Susan47 on February 15, 2005, at 23:22:37
> I didn't think I could possibly be the only one and I was feeling foolish for being honest and wondering if others would think I was wrong but knowing in my heart that I was RIGHT, I know and that is a big problem, it's not something you can just wish to be better and it's done.
I think a fair few women might get this Susan. I agree that it isn't something you can just wish to be better.
> This is a huge, HUGE Fear and it's horrible to have, and I don't want it to be that way
Maybe you could talk about this with your t? About what you are afraid of?
> I think quite honestly, Alexandra, that like you, I just never have had the right person. I know that.
Yeah. Though part of me wonders whether it may come up as an issue for me even then...
>Actually, I have always had so much anxiety over sex that I never gave myself a chance or a choice to love anybody, any guy, ever, nor really get to know him either, or him me.
Hmm. Thats worth talking about.
Glad to know I am not alone in this either.
Thanks.
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