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Re: another possible way to handle it » rainbowbrite

Posted by AuntieMel on May 17, 2005, at 11:54:52

In reply to Re: just trying to understand..., posted by rainbowbrite on May 14, 2005, at 22:05:45

I'm not sure how close you are to this person or how far you can take this.....

The first thing to go in addiction is honesty. So anything you can do get the person to be honest with him/her self will help.

If you are close enough and can - you could have a direct (but kind) talk that goes like:

I know you are drinking. And I know you are not ready to stop. I will make a deal with you - I will not nag you about your drinking if you will not lie to me about it. I want the topic to be open, like the weather, not hidden.

Then stick to it. But you are allowed to insist a person not drive, for example, and calmly give a reminder of work the next day }as long as you only say it once.}

With me confrontaion was the least useful strategy. It did nothing but make me more stubborn and try harder to hide it.

 

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