Posted by alexandra_k on September 19, 2018, at 23:26:36
In reply to Re: Sh!t happens » alexandra_k, posted by Clearskies on September 19, 2018, at 23:14:43
thanks pc. i guess that maybe you wouldn't still be here, if you felt that way, though. 3 post rule -- for a reason. and all that. to... allow... others who are more... hesitant. for whatever reason.
i wonder if it has to do a bit with self-identification.
i know some people do go to aa or na pretty much forever. and they say they continue to get something out of going. but other people say they kind of get to a point with it (after years of meetings) where going to the meetings is getting them reminiscing on past stuff in a way that isn't helping them stay clean and sober, but is actually preventing them from moving on with their now thoroughly clean and sober lives.
i mean... toph knows that what he's going through now is grief and not an episode. he's... open minded enough to maybe come here and post about it... no denial seems to be going on. check... nobody is saying 'whoooooa dude!!!' or anything like that...
though maybe people would start if i would shut my yap and give them a chance to have their own opinion. joke. sorta.
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