Posted by baseball55 on October 12, 2017, at 17:47:54
In reply to Re: drama, posted by alexandra_k on October 11, 2017, at 23:11:24
> I'm more a person of ideas... Ideas in books I've read, talks I've been to, just ideas that I have in my head. Dreams and aspirations. I don't know...
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> Can you turn the conversation to things like this, at all?
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> Maybe these sorts of things are where you choose to invest your time / energy?Yes - I know what you mean. But i like these women and they are also interested in the world and in ideas. Being overly invested in ideas can be a problem in its own right, since it creates barriers to relationships with people who want/need to talk about emotional issues. But you're right. Some people thrive on drama and, maybe women in particular, can only talk about interpersonal problems in their lives.
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