Posted by baseball55 on May 22, 2014, at 20:04:06
In reply to Never normal, posted by Beckett on May 22, 2014, at 2:31:05
> Tonight my husband said that I will never be normal and that he has come to accept this. Afterwards I could not stop crying. I have wanted to be normal for as long as I can remember. I didn't think it showed so much. I'm broken hearted. I felt this way as a child. A very familiar grief.
Well, what is normal? Who is normal? Did your husband say this critically or was he saying, like, I accept you for who you are?
I'm sure not normal and never was. My husband once said, you've always been crazy. I didn't get upset. I agreed. I have always been crazy in ways. What upset me is when my husband told me he hated being with me because I had become depressed, that it was like living with a zombie. That hurt. Badly.
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