Posted by Twinleaf on February 26, 2014, at 22:17:10
In reply to I don't know., posted by Partlycloudy on February 26, 2014, at 18:53:02
This does sound very hard. I guess it's going to be a very tough time for you and him as he starts ctherapy again. Hopefully, things will eventually get genuinely better, but it will undoubtedly be very hard and stressful for a while. Maybe lower your expectations in terms of getting your needs met by him for now, and use your strength and resourcefulness in areas where you know there is more support and reward? If you can do this, you will probably feel stronger and more independent in your dealings with him when/if it's possible to build a healthier relationship - which I do hope you can do.
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