Posted by Solstice on December 24, 2010, at 14:36:40
In reply to Re: crap, posted by alexandra_k on December 23, 2010, at 23:46:51
> thanks solstice. it is just particularly noticeable how dysfunctional and f*ck*d up i am when it hits this time of year because of issues around cooking / food sharing / socializing with people who i'm not entirely comfortable with. this isn't a family time for me, so dealing with others pity / charity is something i'm also supposed to feel... um... grateful(?) for?
Jeesh Alex - after reading about how it works there (as opposed to here) and everything you wrote above - I think you'd find me feeling a lot like you do! zi don't think there's anything even remotely 'sysfunctional' about your reaction. It would drive me nuts too :-)
An conpared to there - our disruptions are brief. My gym is closed Christmas Day and New Years Day. Of course- if you're using a school gym - then it might be the same here. Mine closed Dec. 11 and doesn't reopen until Jan 10.
hang in there..
Solstice
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