Posted by Dinah on August 2, 2010, at 10:33:09
In reply to Re: blocked for 3 weeks..who felt put down? (nm) » Dr. Bob, posted by fayeroe on August 2, 2010, at 1:09:38
Again, I use the example...
Is this something I would say publicly in real life at a party about the party? Those in attendance? Even if I was in a dispute with the host?
Would it make any difference if it were a party I'm leaving forever - with no intent of interacting with any of the participants ever again? If it were a party I intend to return to?
I think there are some things I might say privately to like minded individuals that I might not say publicly in front of those who are enjoying the party. And there are other things I'd likely only tell my therapist and my civility buddy.
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