Posted by Tabitha on June 9, 2009, at 0:51:41
In reply to Re: Question for the married folks » Tabitha, posted by MidnightBlue on June 8, 2009, at 21:58:29
Hi MidnightBlue,
Well your experience jives with the book's thesis (except for that six month delay in the first date). It's hard for me to believe such a thing is possible-- to know on the first date. Wow.
I was raking over my history of men who have showed a strong interest in pursing me. I wasn't that excited about them at all. Now I seriously regret rejecting a couple of them. Looking back with maturity, I realize they were good guys, and probably headed for successful careers and marriages. There are still some I don't regret rejecting, but it makes me think that maybe I shouldn't expect to be "wowed" right away. The guy may need to grow on me a bit. I really need to rank "pursuing me with strong interest" up over "wow factor".
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