Posted by Deneb on June 7, 2009, at 22:25:35
In reply to Re: I don't want to hurt people, posted by garnet71 on June 7, 2009, at 22:13:16
I think I can learn to attach to the right person. In the past I was unable to attach, but I don't know if that is still the case now. My pdoc says I don't even meet criteria for borderline personality anymore.
How will I know if I don't try? Should I just never try then? I see others having very fulfilling relationships and I think I deserve that too.
Also, I do reciprocate. I have learned to do that. Just ask my friends, especially in chat. I am often there for people even when they can't be there for me.
I think you need to know me better to make judgement on me.
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