Posted by Deneb on June 7, 2009, at 20:40:44
I have no idea why I was rejected by my date yesterday. I thought everything was going really well.
I am OK, sometimes things just don't work out. If he can't accept me for me, then that is too bad.
It did make me question things about myself for a bit though. Like, maybe I am not attractive or my personality is bad.
But then I thought, attractiveness is relative. I know of one friend who I don't think is attractive who is very much loved by her boyfriend. She must be very attractive in his eyes. They are extremely affectionate towards each other. It is very obvious they are very sexually attracted to one another.
I think maybe I am not very attractive, and that is why guys never ask me out. Or maybe it is my quiet nature. I dunno. Maybe I am unapproachable, but there must be some guys out there who are attracted to me. The trick is in finding one I am also attracted to.
I was a little bit upset for just a short while from the rejection. I'm thinking it though, being rational about things. It helps to post on Babble.
I will move on.
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