Posted by Kath on March 10, 2009, at 18:52:29
In reply to Could not defend myself, posted by HyperFocus on March 5, 2009, at 23:04:37
I think you behaved with amazing restraint & maturity.
I wish I had been there to see it.
I understand that you feel badly about not defending yourself. In actual fact, your behaviour was wonderful, in my opinion. You acted in a calm, mature way, even while under HUGE provocation by someone who is (to say the very kindest thing I can about him) a colossal bully & an astonishing, immature idiot.
Just in case you haven't thought of this:
I would bet big money on this:
Probably 99.9% or even 100% of the people in the room would have been VERY negatively impressed with him and VERY positively impressed with you.
Not that you're out to impress people, but I just wanted to let you know that I don't think you have ANYthing to be ashamed about. On the contrary - I think you have a LOTTTTTTT to be proud of!!!
hugs, Kath
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