Posted by seldomseen on December 30, 2008, at 11:02:41
In reply to More Womin..err...women probs..Gals (guys?) help!, posted by Jay_Bravest_Face on December 29, 2008, at 18:22:53
What's the difference between womin and women? I don't understand the subject line of your post.
IMO, if she is no longer interested, she should just come out and say "I don't think this is going to work out". But, unfortunately, the brush off and fade out is considered by some to be acceptable behaviour.Personally, I know I would be disappointed if a guy cancelled the first meet and greet at the last minute (I mean unless (1) he was literally on fire or mortally injured in some way, (2) Dead, or had a death in his immediate family or (3) There was a natural disaster in his immediate vicinity.). Of course, I'm very much "once bitten twice shy". To me, the start of the relationship is when everyone should be on their best behaviour - including me. For me, it's an essential time to start building trust. Maybe she is like that too. I don't know.
However, I would just come right out and say so. I don't like the "games" either.
Seldom
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