Posted by Jay_Bravest_Face on December 29, 2008, at 18:22:53
Sometimes I just really do feel *cursed* when it comes to women and relationships. (or potential..)
(Okay...Jay winds up...cue rant in 4.....3.....2....1..) on the air..Well, I had started 'conversing' with a woman, call her Ms.X, about a month ago I met on an internet personals website. We knew what each other looked like from profile pics. She came on a bit strong at first, and hey, I didn't mind that! She is younger then I am. She is in her early 30's. So, we talked for a few weeks, and decided to meet on a certain day. Well, come that day, I had just come off a 14 hour shift at work, and my anxiety was right through the roof. I called her, and yes I eventually got to explaining that is was the anxiety of it all, plus deep fatigue from extra long, unexpected, work. So, she said that was 'cool', not a problem, and maybe we could meet the next week, no problem.
Well, she has pretty much stopped emailing me, despite one email telling me not to 'worry'. Usually I call her or she calls me after we email every 3 or so days. Nothing forced...we have (or had) great conversations that lasted many hours.
I wrote her back again, a week and a half ago, and just yesterday got a two line email that said "I'm busy...we'll talk later". But, I also happened to notice that she was going on the same dating website, every single day since the last day we talked (on the phone) 3 or so weeks ago! She posted many messages in the 'forum' of the website, some even longer then emails she has sent me. That is perfectly fine..I have no problem at all with that. But, when I get only a 2 sentence email over two weeks, and I called her once..once only and left a message (very civil), and she hasn't even called me back.Reason I am writing all of this? ha. Mystified again by the femina once again! Hmmphhh.
Jay
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