Posted by Kath on February 6, 2008, at 17:51:59
In reply to Re: Thinking of killing self or running away » rskontos, posted by Deneb on February 6, 2008, at 17:20:31
Guess What Deneb?
I just thought of what I think is the best way to deal with your sister.
First, don't bring up anything about your life to her. Preferably do not talk about these things in front of her or in her hearing.
Second, if she buts in or starts her stuff, simply say,
"I am not willing to discuss this with you."her reply (for ex) 'oh listen to YOU - acting all huffy...'
"Perhaps you didn't hear me. I repeat. I am not willing to discuss this with you."
'you're just a lazy, money-waster'
"For the last time, I am not willing to discuss this with you." then walk away.
Keep talking Deneb. You've got support here.
luv, Kath
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