Posted by Fivefires on September 13, 2007, at 15:45:07
In reply to Re: Heartache in mind and soul :( » Fivefires, posted by ClearSkies on September 13, 2007, at 7:48:02
Tks CS!! I will remind myself of this right now and try to keep the thought.
I couldn't put him in 'the grief stack' because my family all disliked him so much!
It occurs to me this is a big part of my problem.
They're all so happy that he is gone. One or two even ask/say 'how could you miss someone like that?' ya' know?
But, you're right CS, it is like grief. I was letting their feelings about him intimidate me from having my own real feelings.
I know grief. I've been doing this w/ my father since '04. This is more of it.
I will think of it this way.
It's mine and I'm entitled to it.
It was right in front of my face but I didn't have anyone who really put it to me this way, especially IRL.
Thank you so much for pointing this out to me!!
I'm sorta' relieved, and I'm very thankful to have found a little space in this vortex years ago.
sincerely, 5f
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