Posted by Kath on March 5, 2007, at 20:47:00
In reply to Re: Kath...p.s, posted by Jo U.K on March 5, 2007, at 13:46:44
I am SOOOOOOOOOOO upset.
Before the PHONECALL, my son phoned me to see if I could drive him to the hospital because he was having kidneystone pain. He has quite a history of kidney stones & can cope with quite a bit of pain, so if he says lets go to the hosp you know he is in PAIN.
I said he should call GF just to verify things, as we were going to pick her up at 11:40 tonite.
She had been supposed to phone him by 3 our time. This was about 4:30.
When I arrived at his place, no answer to knocking at door, so I went in. He was on the phone & it was apparent that she was telling him she wasn't going to be on the flight.
I got the picture from what I could hear, that she was NOT returning & that she was pretty-well saying that she wasn't going to continue in their relationship. (3 years; talk of marriage)
He was beSIDE himself. When he got off the phone, he was in fetal position on the floor crying. It was horrendous.
I am SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO angry with her. You know - I DID have suspicions, but during the time they were back, she was so extremely loving with him & various things that were said put my mind at ease. My son's friend briefly talked with her also, & she said that No, it wasn't drugs...it was for herself that she was staying, and also there was a guy out there...............
So I was right, in that the guy who was staying at my son & her apartment while son was in hospital, IS taking my son's place.
I feel very very bitter. And very angry.
Talk about kicking someone when they're down.
Listen to me - I'm being 'victim' in my son's place!! I guess it makes sense that I am pretty upset.
I sort of think "WHYYYYYYYY? Why does he need this to happen also?"
Part of me accepts that I don't know why things happen & maybe there's a good reason. Maybe this will be for his own good somehow, but it's pretty cruel right now.
:-((((
At the hospital, there were tons of people & since he has anxiety these days anyway, he told me he couldln't stay. There were even 20 waiting to see the intake (triage) nurse, as well as a huge waiting room full. So I gave him some pain pills that were left from hubby's gall bladder problem. We'll go to hospital tomorrow; hopefully it won't be as busy then.
If you pray, please keep my son in your prayers.
Thanks for your good thoughts. I wish it had turned out differently.
I am so sad.
Kath
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