Posted by Deneb on August 10, 2006, at 23:46:47
In reply to Re: I got labelled as a troll...again :-( » Deneb, posted by Racer on August 9, 2006, at 10:41:35
> OK, I'm going to go back on my "Deneb break," because you sound pretty upset about this. (And I don't blame you.)
Thanks for your reply Racer. I'm not really that upset about it this time around. I was pretty upset over on that breast cancer support forum though.
> First thing you do, Miss Uni Student, is Define Your Terms, right? What does being a Troll mean? Glydin posted a definition from Wikipedia. Does that help? Can you walk through the definition and see if you think it fits you?The definition doesn't fit me, but I can begin to understand why my behaviour sometimes leads others to think I'm a troll. It should be good enough that I know I'm not a troll.
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> Next, once you've looked intellectually at what fits and what doesn't, can you get into your emotions, and ask yourself what's bothering you about all this? Why does it matter so much what a bunch of strangers on a computer screen think about you?It really shouldn't matter that much, but still I sometimes let it get to me. It's all about my own reaction. I let myself be upset by them. I have to learn to be more secure in myself and not have others determine my self worth.
> Or, babblemail me for a link to a usenet group that you can safely vent all your frustrations on, thanks to the Troll King!LOL Now I'm curious.
>Sometimes it can be nice to see what some people out there consider appropriate communication.
I agree!
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