Posted by madeline on May 13, 2006, at 11:49:36
In reply to What's behind the question, posted by jammerlich on May 13, 2006, at 8:37:54
For the record, I know men that shave their testicles. They like the way it feels. Also, personally, I LIKE it when men shave their testicles and around their penis. Who likes having all that hair around?
Seriously though, IMO your suspicions are most likely grounded in some truth.
What do you think would happen if you just asked him again? "Are you gay?".
Are you ready for the answer? Or that you might not get an answer at all? What then?
If he is gay and not telling you, then he is probably afraid of what would happen if you found out. He may not want to lose you. HE may not be ready to "come out". I don't know, I just don't know.
What would change if you found out?
I'll be thinking about you in the coming days.
Racer is right about one thing however, marriage is just that much harder when there is an element of mistrust around.
Maddie
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