Posted by TexasChic on April 4, 2006, at 20:21:03
In reply to Re: Upsetting day » TexasChic, posted by crazy teresa on April 4, 2006, at 19:34:23
> I'm curious as to why you give a rat's *ss about these girls' opinions of you.
I don't know! Its just something I do. I get obsessed. I've done it over and over. I can actually see that. But for some reason it doesn't stop it from happening.
BTW: If you could only see them standing around laughing LOUD while talking to the guys. Its just sickening. Its irritating. It IS like jr. high!!!
>Would you want to be friends with girls who routinely treat others in this way? The way you've discribed their behavior, it sounds as if they're in jr. high, trying to make others miserable to make themselves feel better.>
That's exactly what's been going through my head. And I know I don't really want to be friends with them. It was just nice to belong for that short time. Even if it was fake (apparently).
> I wouldn't worry about the folders or what's in them. Pretend like you never saw it and they get no satisfaction.
I've been thinking that too! Today I tried to write something back but the server crashed before I could do it. I kind of wondered if that was maybe a sign.
> I might keep a private record at home of all the things they do. If the bitchiness turns into harassment, you have documentation to take into personnel, should the need arise.
Already there. I took a screen shot of all the folders with my name in it. A box in the middle shows this:
Folder / Owner
Get the F*ck out [my name]! / BitchyGirl1'sRealName
Get the F*ck out [my name]! / BitchyGirl2'sRealName
Get the F*ck out [my name]! / BitchyGirl1'sRealName
Get the F*ck out [my name]! / BitchyGirl3'sRealNameI thought about just leaving that screen shot as a message back to them. It would worry me if I were them.
-T
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