Posted by bird in the sky on December 29, 2005, at 22:04:47
In reply to Re: Am i the only one who has done this ? » bird in the sky, posted by Larry Hoover on December 29, 2005, at 17:06:42
Lar said:
If I understand you correctly, you misdirect energy that could have gone into this behaviour? I'm sorry if anything I have said has led you to believe that I think that it is reasonable or (I struggle with what word is best) acceptable to continue to do this, without all parties being totally aware of just what is going on.No you haven't led me to believe it is ok. In fact you have been quite understanding yet firm in how and why you think it's wrong. I guess i agree, i usually am a very value-oriented person.
I guess i was trying to rationalize and try to see if you guys think it was in any way acceptable.I am glad that noone knows i do this (that knows me), except my therapist. I guess if i were busted i would say i was crying on the phone.
Yes, I misdirect energy that gets built up when i don't do this. That's what i think is going on.
who are you anyway, a psychologist? I thought this was a board of peers.
what would you feel or think if you knew what was going on, and you had an idea who it was? (compassion, desire to "help") what if you had no idea who it was, (anger? nothing, frustration)
wow, i don't want to evoke any of these in the listeners except maybe compassion. i dont know. i wish i knew what people would think. Larry or anyone?
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