Posted by Mal on October 26, 2005, at 8:28:10
In reply to **NOT** good enough..please help me understand, posted by jay on October 26, 2005, at 8:08:43
Jay, I am sorry you are feeling this way. I understand you must be frustrated...
The only thing I can think of is to ask you if you are in a career that plays to your strengths. Or is it at least something you enjoy working at? I think picking a path that features your talents is a very healthy thing. It allows you to shine- in which case you are much more likely to be *noticed*! And if you're too far along your career path to change now, maybe screw up some courage and join some club or group that is involved with something you are good at, or maybe take a class at a local community college. That is much easier said than done, I know, but having some little corner of your life in which you can feel good about yourself would do a lot of good.
I have read your posts for years, though I seldom replied, and I know you are a sensitive and caring guy. Any woman worthy of you won't think a thing about whether or not you have hair! I find some totally bald guys irresistable! I think it is all in the way you wear it- embrace it, and know that if a woman can't see beyond your physical appearance to the great guy you are, she isn't worth your time.
I think you just haven't come across the girl who knows how to treat you yet. And there isn't too much we can do to hurry that along...sorry...
Hoping this helps...
MAL
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