Posted by TexasChic on October 23, 2005, at 19:49:23
In reply to Re: Party tonight!, posted by Phillipa on October 22, 2005, at 21:34:19
It was alot of fun. No hooking up, but I laughed pratically all night long. This group likes nothing better than to crack each other up.
I hung out with cute boy all night, but I think I'm finally ready to let that whole fantasy go. This other guy at the party was talking about a girl at work he liked and cute boy said, for the second time in my presence, that dating someone at work is a 'really' bad idea. So I realized I 'really' just need to forget about the whole thing and move on. I still feel like there may be something between us, but he obviously will never act on it while we're working together. So I decided I could live with that senerio. The whole not knowing if something was going to happen or not is what kept me hanging on.
On another note, the other guy I talked about that's married, told me last night they're getting divorced (and have been separated for a year). Its weird, I don't necessarily find him physically attractive, but I definitely feel an attraction, kind of like Angela2 was describing with the pheromones and everything. He's always acted interested in me, so maybe that's a direction to think about. He's also one of the really funny ones, which for me is always a big plus.
Anyway, all in all it was a good night, and a good first step to getting back in the social game. I just need to learn how not to get totally obsessed with a guy and just let things happen as they happen, and take it from there. Thanks for all the well wishes everyone!
-T
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