Posted by crushedout on August 8, 2005, at 15:16:26
In reply to Re: Tamar » crushedout, posted by tamar on August 8, 2005, at 15:00:29
> > I also have serious problems with heterosexuality because I want to marry a straight woman. :(
> >
> > I'm not really joking. Got my work cut out for me.
>
> Ah. It sounds as if you’re speaking of someone in particular… no?well, maybe a few someones. it comes up for me often lately, my longings toward straight women. part of the problem is just that most women are (primarily) straight and especially the feminine-looking ones. I'm generally attracted to fairly feminine-looking women.
Sometimes I think it's also possible that i just *assume* the feminine-looking ones are straight, which is silly, since i'm feminine-looking and gay.
but right now, i guess you're right: i have a specific person in mind. since it's my therapist, i don't think i have much of a shot. :( she's a good therapist. lucky me. (half-sarcastic, half-relieved)
>On one hand, I don’t think sexual orientation is fixed; I’m sure you could persuade a straight woman to give her gay side an airing! But on the other hand, would it be frustrating to spend hours teaching her how to do it? (Maybe that’s a silly question…)oh, yes, very silly. hours teaching a straight woman the joys of lesbianity? no, no, that's a punishment worse than death! please don't throw me in the briar patch!
(ok, it might not be that great if she was really clueless. but i think with a sensual person, it comes pretty naturally.)
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