Posted by alexandra_k on June 23, 2005, at 22:43:29
In reply to Re: I don't feel connected anymore :-( » alexandra_k, posted by Deneb on June 23, 2005, at 22:01:36
Hey. I'm just explaining my take. It is hard though. And it does feel unsettling sometimes especially when people come and go all the time, as you say.
> Thanks for saying you will miss me. :-)
Thats okay. It really is true you know. I bet a lot of people from here would miss you.
I think the name of the game is to have a few different people who you are more acquained / friends with. That way if something does happen with one person then you aren't left completely shattered because you haven't put all your eggs into one basket. Different people can connect with you in different ways and I think the only way to feel connected in all respects is to have a variety of different friends who are able to connect with you in different ways.
And yourself too.
Don't forget about you.
You can be a good friend to yourself by being kind to yourself and not giving yourself a hard time.Sometimes thats the hardest connection of all...
But that is one that is capable of being there most constantly with you.
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