Posted by sunny10 on April 13, 2005, at 14:49:18
In reply to Re: ((((((((((Susan47)))))))))) » sunny10, posted by Tamar on April 13, 2005, at 14:13:22
yes, I have heard all these things and more myself which is why, although I am no longer frightened out of my wits at the moment, I am still filled with trepidation.
We will see what happens when I propose that we both go to anger management classes/therapy- alone or together. We are both equally guilty of pushing each other's buttons, the only difference is that I do not become violent...I become scared and run like h*ll the other way... far away. Usually, I don't give the other person a chance to even explain. I'm learning to give others a chance, but he has to learn not to need this particular type of second chance- there won't be another.
I have already decided not to become a victim of physical abuse. We will not live together. Not during dealing with our own issues or with our issues together. We may never live together again.
One day at a time....
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