Posted by Tamar on March 26, 2005, at 19:49:52
In reply to Re: tis been awhile » Susan47, posted by Dinah on March 26, 2005, at 9:35:48
I think this is an interesting area for discussion. I've read that it's quite common for people with certain kinds of trauma history to be quite promiscuous. Does that make a difference?
I'm certain that if my husband were unfaithful my reaction would depend entirely on the identity of the other woman. I would be upset if I felt it threatened my marriage (for example, if he fell in love with someone else). But if it's just friendly sex I wouldn't mind so much.
Maybe it's because I'm not naturally jealous, or maybe it's because I think my husband isn't likely to leave me because we have kids together. But I tend to think that sex is just sex and doesn't have to have some kind of cosmic significance. Am I odd?
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