Posted by Susan47 on March 25, 2005, at 22:48:12
In reply to Hey, Suze..., posted by sunny10 on March 25, 2005, at 22:04:56
It's three or four hours. I'm so sorry, Sunny. (((((Sunny))))) Call me if you like. You know you can. Oh dear, were you with him when he died, or did you come later? Did you know it would be this close, today? What did he say the last time you talked, or maybe that's too much to ask. That's okay, you don't have to answer or even think about it if you don't want to, but it might be good to, I don't know, what do people do when someone dies? We're all different, you will find what works for you, but let yourself feel if it's safe. Find someone who'll accept your feelings and talk to that person.... (remember me if you like) ... tell as little or as much as you like, ask for a hug if you can, don't be afraid to break down and lean on people for support, Sunny. People will respond in amazing ways when they care.
Is your SO being supportive? Is he with you? How is he dealing with the information, and with you?
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