Posted by alexandra_k on February 19, 2005, at 19:17:11
In reply to Oh sweet miracle .., posted by jay on February 19, 2005, at 0:27:01
It is worth taking the time to be careful with what you say..
It is hard at first.
You might think 'why bother'???
What we say is a reflection of who we are.
The way we say it is a reflection of who we are.
The way we talk about things reflects the way we think about things.Our choice of words affects other considerably.
It is hard to start with but it gets easier with practice. After a while it can come naturally (unless we are very stressed).
I too worry about your words. Your love turned to hatred so damn fast. Your unwillingness to consider that there were faults and differences on both sides.
But oh well. It is your life. I hope you find whatever it is you are really looking for. And I hope you don't come to hate too many women in the process. Good luck to you.
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