Posted by Fallen4MyT on January 20, 2005, at 21:40:21
In reply to Ahhh, I'm trying to be reasonable., posted by Dinah on January 20, 2005, at 20:49:50
I wish I had your phone number I would sneaky call him and tell him he needs to do this ...I understand *feelings* There may be a second option but ??
> I'm really not all that easy to offend, and I don't get bent out of shape easily. But it never occurred to me that when I said that I wasn't sure I'd be finished my work and able to go that my husband would suggest they just go without me.
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> I know I should be reasonable, discuss it with him, find out what his thinking is. But I just want to stomp off and slam the door and think dramatic thoughts. :) I'm not feeling all that reasonable.
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> I figure the only real repair could be if he unprompted came to me and said "I don't know what I was thinking. A family vacation wouldn't be a family vacation without *all* the family. I'd rather go later with you than right now without you." But that's not going to happen.
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> Given that nothing short of that would fix anything, it doesn't seem worth even mentioning it.
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