Posted by Dinah on January 20, 2005, at 20:49:50
In reply to Re: So I was wrong. It isn't ok. ((( DINAH))) » Dinah, posted by Fallen4MyT on January 20, 2005, at 17:42:49
I'm really not all that easy to offend, and I don't get bent out of shape easily. But it never occurred to me that when I said that I wasn't sure I'd be finished my work and able to go that my husband would suggest they just go without me.
I know I should be reasonable, discuss it with him, find out what his thinking is. But I just want to stomp off and slam the door and think dramatic thoughts. :) I'm not feeling all that reasonable.
I figure the only real repair could be if he unprompted came to me and said "I don't know what I was thinking. A family vacation wouldn't be a family vacation without *all* the family. I'd rather go later with you than right now without you." But that's not going to happen.
Given that nothing short of that would fix anything, it doesn't seem worth even mentioning it.
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