Posted by Fallen4MyT on January 13, 2005, at 18:06:28
In reply to Re: Moodiness and anxiety » Fallen4MyT, posted by Angel Girl on January 13, 2005, at 11:05:05
Hey ya AG thanks for posting here..and understanding YES it irks me like all get out. I have asked him why he does that and he just repeats like what he said say at the store " they need your number because" its almost like he is on their side <if sides are to be had> and that drives me crazy...well ok lol crazier :P I could beat my head into a table every time he comes up with one of his YOU DO NOT FEEL THAT WAY kinda comments.....once in a store I was looking for my money and he called me a retard at the counter the girl looked sooooo mad I could tell she was ready to say something..he can be kind and yet..kind of abusive....I am not stupid I graduated from college with a 3.89 gpa (hard to believe the way I type lol) he had he said a 2. ?so why he feels this need to discount me is beyond me and the answer is elusive.
> fallen
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> Have you ever asked your husband why he is insistant on answering for you and over-riding your response to people, especially when you have repeatedly told him that you don't like it.
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> That would irk me too. You're an adult and fully capable of speaking for yourself and who is anyone else to tell you how you feel? I hate when people tell me I have nothing to be depressed about like they are the all knowledgable and know every nuiance of me.
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> AG
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