Posted by Jai Narayan on December 28, 2004, at 8:42:06
In reply to Re: Feeling weak and needy » Cass, posted by partlycloudy on December 28, 2004, at 8:07:19
Cass, I am so sorry you feel the way you do.
I am from the rescuing group.
Have been since I was a baby.
How can I help you?Maybe set up small moves toward the hard tasks?
With your husband set up little conversations that get closer to what you really want to communicate?
Pick your favorite time of day, when you feel most comfortable and then have these small conversations.
Make an agreement with him to help bridge the communication gab.
take baby steps. Stop when it feels uncomfortable. Make a deal with your husband about your option to stop when you feel you need to.
All this is just a suggestion. If you think or feel this is way over the top....
it's okay to pass on these ideas if you don't like them.
I will not be hurt.I have liked you and what you've had to say ever since the first post I have ever read.
your buddy Jai
poster:Jai Narayan
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