Posted by AuntieMel on November 22, 2004, at 11:52:24
In reply to Re: thanksgiving w/ the inlaws: what to do?, posted by smokeymadison on November 22, 2004, at 3:58:15
Is the boyfriend in on the subterfuge? Does *he* know you are having problems with the idea?
If he does, is there a way you can plead migrane or something and go lie down a bit after dinner?
Of course, if he does and wants to keep up pretenses, I would (this is me now, I'm not speaking for you), I would want to know why he feels the need to pretend.
Spoken by someone who's been in medical care for 2-3 years now and still hasn't told the inlaws :)
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