Posted by TexasChic on August 9, 2004, at 12:29:35
In reply to Re: Scared to go on vacation, posted by JenStar on August 9, 2004, at 11:56:20
You poor thing PC! But the history is not your fault! Its your ex's! Don't take on the guilt for his wrong doings. And I agree with Jen about sharing with your husband. Let him know this will be difficult and that his support will help you get past this. And once that happens, maybe you can enjoy the trip! I really hope you do. Your ex and his actions don't deserve to still have this much power over your life. Take that power back! These things were not your fault. You may have to live with the consequences, but you don't have to live with the guilt. Its not yours, let it go.
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