Posted by karen_kay on July 7, 2004, at 11:56:04
In reply to Ladies (and maybe guys)..I need your thoughts plz., posted by jay on July 2, 2004, at 19:33:11
i somehow missed this :(
how great a seemingly polite, young lady moved in next door!!!! (personally, if i roll my hair between my fingers, i'm flirting, BUTTTTTTT!!!!!! that's just me..... and i'm not a polite young lady either. it could also be taken as shyness too)
if you want to become friends with her, an easy way to do so would be to notice when she's sitting on her porch (probably later in the evening when it's cooler outside) and ask if you can join her. ask her questions that you'd like to know about her... like her name, if she's from the area, things about her... ask about her, as you are interested in knowing about her, right? you can also incorporate things about yourself into the conversation as well, and i'm sure she'll ask about you too. just be sure there's a good mix of conversation between you and her. if she's new to the area, talk about fun things to do in the area, like parks, live music (try to stay clear of bars unless she mentions them first, as it may appear you are trying to pick her up), coffee houses, things like that. if she's from the area, then talk about people you know (chances are you may have one in common), places you frequent (or used to if you don't anymore), your music and interests.
jay, you're such a sweet guy. i'd die for the chance to live next door to you. i'd sit on my porch day and night, flipping my hair back and forth, just waiting for you to come and talk to me. now, go talk to this sweet girl. do her a favor please. (and then report back here so i can be extremely jealous :(
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