Posted by Sebastian on May 21, 2004, at 17:32:46
I'm a 28 year old guy in great shape who hasn't had sex in 3 years!!!
Not since my last girlfriend. I was fat and insecure up untill last year when I lost a lot of weight. I use to go to and dance clubs/bars to meet women. I havn't done that since I moved here 6 years ago. I want to blame my meds, myself, my last girlfreind. I try to get the nirve up to go out on weekends, but never can do it. Wish I knew where to go. Feel as if I'm too old to do that. All my freinds here are married. I don't trust myself to drink. Maybe I will get bad moods, or have an accident, car beat up. I've never been real good at picking up women except at the dance clubs back in Cananda. Now I'm in the US. I look at myself and see everything wrong. Don't know how to even talk to women anymore, I'm always shy and insecure, ignore the ones I'm interested in, why? I can tell they are interested, but I always ignore them, why? I NEED help, fast!! I worry I will take advantage of a woman Is that wrong? Feel like I was to assertive in the past few times sincce I got all these mental problems. The truth is I real have not been dating at all since I got sick, back in '95. I've lost all this time, not able to make myself happy anymore.
help,
poster:Sebastian
thread:349353
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