Posted by Will_Hung on May 12, 2004, at 15:52:23
In reply to Re: Advice would be appreciated! » Will_Hung, posted by 64bowtie on May 12, 2004, at 14:24:04
Hi again,
Further to my previous post, yes, i am indeed a college student. Note that the 'rules' are not something that the two of us have sat down and discussed; rather I sat down and drew them up with the help of a mutual friend who knows what she's like. I see your point that rules 2 and 8 need a little work for reasons that you've made very clear. To be honest though, i'm not sure that moving out would solve the problem; rather, the problem as I see it at the moment is that she's managed to invade every single nook and cranny of my existence and, in turn, damage it. She's like a virus. My biggest problem at the moment is not dealing with her presence, the 'rules' seem to do quite a good job of stopping her in her tracks; after all, if i'm polite yet non-friendly with her, how can she bad mouth me for it? My biggest problem is that all our friends are mutual ones. Tonight, for example, she's rounded up every single one of our friends and gone for a night out with them, leaving me on my own. This was all arranged under the pretence of it being a night out for her boyfriend, who leaves tomorrow. As i don't get on with the guy it was the perfect excuse to push me out. Thing is, moving out won't stop her doing these these things will it? If anything it may give her more control over me, because she'll see more of my friends than i do! Any thoughts??
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