Re: Mother Question - Was I Right or Was I Wrong?

Posted by Escher Dementian on April 30, 2004, at 3:36:00

In reply to Re: Mother Question - Was I Right or Was I Wrong? » Susan J, posted by Emme on April 29, 2004, at 21:47:11

Just a note before i conk out, too...
Emme, i SO wholeheartedly applaud your post. All of it.
Infact, i was so relieved and cheered by SO MANY of the above posts regarding this kind of issue (near and dear to me, too~ a lifelong work just to get through it with my own mother also,-and worse) that my printer will need a cool down period after printing the advice posts. i plan to read a few of them every time i have to deal with my mother.
Susan J , i SO feel for you in same-boat relativity. Hang in there, you are quite obviously the improvement on the theme~ or bloodline, if you'll forgive my putting it that way. i have a left-banked take on your "sensitivity", your virtue of kindness, and obvious intelligence:
It has come to a Great Strong Spirit such as yourself to be able to bear the pain of the 'sensitivity' in order to change the chain of inheritance of this kind of treatment of daughters. That the 'sensitivity' you bear is a choice to remain informed... that you might hone your drive and gift to all other human beings (and animals, i gather!) by finding Another Better Way to treat others. Notice that you were careful, and even took in feeling persecuted without returning the pain to her. i believe it is people who come into this world like yourself who bring 'the healing' to our bloodlines. Simply by Who you choose to become, given painful treatment. Who but You has been strong enough to remain vulnerable and therefore gentle? Respectful? It's called a virtue, and virtue is always a choice born of and bearing hard work. And by your own existing it, now it exists in the world for the rest of us.
It's just a soul-hunch.
And i include this site, with Penny and Dinah, and gg, and noa....etc. in my own Gratitudes before i fall asleep tonight.
Just Thanx',
&Sweet Dreams,
Escher

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Mother Question - Was I Right or Was I Wrong? Susan J 4/26/04
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Re: Mother Question - Was I Right or Was I Wrong? » Penny Susan J 4/26/04
Re: Mother Question - Was I Right or Was I Wrong? TexasChic 4/26/04
Re: Mother Question - Was I Right or Was I Wrong? » TexasChic Susan J 4/26/04
Re: Mother Question - Was I Right or Was I Wrong? » Susan J Dinah 4/26/04
Re: Mother Question - Was I Right or Was I Wrong? » Susan J noa 4/26/04
Re: Mother Question - Was I Right or Was I Wrong? » Susan J noa 4/26/04
Re: Mother Question - Was I Right or Was I Wrong? Pathur 4/26/04
Re: Mother Question - Was I Right or Was I Wrong? gardenergirl 4/27/04
Re: Mother Question - Was I Right or Was I Wrong? Susan J 4/27/04
Re: Mother Question - Was I Right or Was I Wrong? TexasChic 4/27/04
Re: Mother Question - Was I Right or Was I Wrong? » TexasChic Susan J 4/27/04
Re: Mother Question - Was I Right or Was I Wrong? » Susan J Emme 4/29/04
Re: Mother Question - Was I Right or Was I Wrong? Escher Dementian 4/30/04
Emme, I really like that! » Emme Susan J 5/3/04
Re: Mother Question - Was I Right or Was I Wrong? » Escher Dementian Susan J 5/3/04
Re: Emme, I really like that! » Susan J Emme 5/4/04
Life in General » Emme Susan J 5/5/04
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